“The greatest gift that you can give to others is the gift of unconditional love and acceptance.” Brian Tracy
“What we do and how we behave towards others reflects a mirror image of how we see our Selves. When we see our Selves as heroes, we’re heroes. When we see our Selves as failures we’re failures. What we believe, is ours to choose. How wise we are when we choose to believe in our loving hearts, the purest essence of our Being. When we choose pure unconditional love, we choose a love so powerful, it needs no explanation. It is here that we experience the joy of our own magnificence.
As we love our Selves, so we love others. Our thoughts are free of judgements when we lose our attachments to right and wrong, good and bad, negative and positive and all other critical analysis.
The way we behave is a refection of what we think about ourselves and how we deal with our issues. When we choose love over fearful thoughts, we allow, accept and create a new way to think and feel and a new language that reflects our transformation, returning us to our true experience of pure unconditional love. To remain there and manifest our purest desires, our behavior must reflect how we choose to remember and trust our intention, willingness and commitment to our dream of making a difference in the time we’re here and even beyond.
My programming was so influential, I believed what was programmed into me on a daily basis, that love was conditional. Reasons, judgements and defenses all became attached to my idea of love. So all my time was spent substituting my actual true experience of unconditional love with the idea & fantasy of love attached to all kinds of reasons, conditions and excuses.
As a child I fantasized about the romantic concept of what I thought true love was. I was three years old when I fell in love with my thirteen year old cousin who looked like a movie star so that image was set in my mind. As I grew older I looked for that image to complete my vision of what true love was. As a teenager I was star struck and spent much of my leisure time at the movies where that kind of love was hammered into my brain and triggered a false emotional sense of authentic love. There always seemed to be pain involved with that kind of thought process. It triggered emotional neediness, fear associated with loss and wishful thinking based in unrealistic expectations.
When Danny and I first met, he fit all my pictures and it was truly love at first sight for both of us. In that moment we, as two individuals became one unit of a deep and abiding love for no apparent reason. The attraction was magnetic and we both experienced each other as “soul mates”. It lasted for six months until we got married. Then when life happened and our insecurities surfaced our choices were not always in our own or each other’s best interest. What kept us together for so many years was that initial connection of unconditional love that we shared.
I may have forgotten that initial connection but the memory was always there waiting for me to bring it back to life in my own consciousness.
There isn’t one condition that defines true love. Anything that requires stipulation, judgement, description, attachment or defense has nothing to do with pure unconditional love.
Though we’ve been told we need to work on becoming our true authentic Self, I believe this is false information. What is it that we have to become when all we have to do is remember who we are and choose to Be? How can we become that which we already are? Or for that that matter, that which we always have been? Why would we choose not to believe we’re magnificent Spiritual Beings? Why would we choose not to believe we’re worthy and deserving of everything our hearts desire? Why would we not be grateful for Being Love and generously sharing it with others? Only our belief that we’re not, can prevent us from choosing that which we are. All we have to do is remember.
As the human condition would have it, life happens. Fear, struggle and pain mask our true belief in our essential nature. Conditions are put upon us in childhood and we accept them as truths as we grow up. These beliefs help us forget our own experience of pure true unconditional love.
As we’re Being love, we return to the truth of the magnificence of who we are and trust we’re genuinely real and authentic and worthy of everything our hearts desire. Our Universal energy light is the radiant color of love. It shines so bright all around us that we deserve to have that divine honor bestowed upon our Selves with nothing added or taken away.
What we’re choosing is the belief that we’re worthy of giving and receiving a love that’s pure and true. This is the power of true unconditional love and the joy of living an authentic life every moment of every day. We all deserve to accept the magnificent Being we are so we can live a magical life.”
