The Mastery of Language is designed to empower us to clearly express conscious, life-changing choices.
Unless we speak from our hearts, what we say, our spoken word reflects what we were taught to think as children. What unresolved issues we programmed into our belief system when a specific situation occurred, remained in our subconscious as we continued to grow into adulthood. Until we become aware of how this pattern developed, what we communicate to the outside world reflects that pattern of thinking. Our reactions become an automatic response and we don’t even realize this trigger is happening over and over again.
How we language is one way others see us but more importantly it’s a reflection of how we see ourselves.
It’s amazing to realize how creative the mind is and how the power of our thoughts, feelings, and spoken words manifest our reality. Because our language is based in yielding results and divine inspiration, it works well when we communicate and speak only that which we wish to inspire and empower in others.
Sometimes our word patterns sabotage our highest choices. What our parents believed and taught us is still in our subconscious sub-structure and we continue to act on those beliefs from the past. Many times our speech patterns reflect those of our piers or teachers who we admire and unconsciously take on as our own.
I remember the year before I graduated high school I met someone at a party who was a year younger than me. She went to a different school and was a year and a half behind me. We formed an instant friendship as we had so many things in common. We almost never had conflict. She spent the next year working feverishly to graduate high school in three years to be with me in college. On my insistence my father used a great deal of influence to help her get into Bard College which was not an easy task. I had no idea at the time that she was a chameleon who could become anything at any time. As our friendship grew I felt like I was with myself every time I was with her. Her sense of humor, values, speech and language patterns were the same as mine. She had become me. Later on in time when we had a falling out she became very close to another person we both knew and it was amazing to observe her transforming herself and emulating the speech pattern of that person. Years after that I saw her do the same thing with someone else. It was a reflection of how little she thought of herself and how programmed she was to not believe in her Self and what lengths she was willing to go to for others to accept her, even as far as to speak exactly like the person whose behavior she was mimicking.
Until we decide to make new choices that reflect our true value and worth without having to have a reason why, we continue to language from judgment and critical thinking or how we believe we want others to perceive us..
I know so many people who get unconsciously stuck in the story of their lives When we get caught up in our stories, out of habit we repeat them over and over again. These programmed beliefs affect how we create language patterns about ourselves. Often when we are in the process of transformation we continue to language our old beliefs that may not still be true. When we change the story to include our transformation we change our perception of ourselves and how we verbally present our new way of thinking and Being to the outside world.
Conscious thoughts, feelings and the spoken word are among our greatest manifesting tools. Every word followed by I Am is a done deal! This is one of the most creative phrases we can utter. I was taught to believe Descartes’ maxim “I think, therefore I am”. It kept me stuck in my own unwanted thought patterns. Now I believe “I am, therefore I am” which has freed me to actually BE who I am.
The subconscious mind is one hundred percent literal. It doesn’t understand the nuances of jokes, especially sarcasm, which can be extremely toxic. Some comedians I knew when I lived in the Catskill Mountains and had a personal connection to “show biz folks” had a biting sarcasm to their humor, and often that was a cover for their own pain and insecurities. Others used self deprecating humor to make fun of themselves to mask their fear of what they believed others thought of them.
A very long time ago, when I subconsciously found myself in uncomfortable situations, when I felt less than, or not good enough, I used sarcasm as a defense mechanism and would seek out others for agreement. Looking back at it now, I see how it set me apart and left me with a false sense of security and superiority. Often, without meaning to be I was unconsciously rude and obnoxious.That was not my intention but my language and how I presented myself reflected that.
Our subconscious doesn’t know the difference between you and me. Whatever we judge in another is what we are afraid to see in ourselves. Others become a mirror for those fears. There’s a language in our hearts connected to life everywhere and it’s up to us to make a conscious choice about what we’ll do with the information associated with this connection. When we language true authentic love it comes from a deep sense of our Selves and a true knowledge of our authentic Being.
When we’re clear about our own Intentions we then can speak as if what we desire has already come true. When our prayers begin with gratitude, we “come from the wish fulfilled!” The conscious community is about changing ourselves and our world, one person or group at a time. Look around you with awareness, there’s a practicing paradigm emerging, a global connection and a shift in the universal consciousness.
Speaking and writing our thoughts in an empowering way brings empowering results:
When I created a personal mission statement and my intentions, I used powerful words and phrases to inspire and empower me, speaking of my desires and reflecting my principles to clearly communicate my wishes. This reflects the true meaning of the law of attraction. What we consciously think about loving ourselves unconditionally is what we are worthy of and what we deserve. However, out of habit, what our subconscious thinks is what we actually create.
When we use words or phrases that imply some manner of fearful thinking we are doing disservice to our authentic Selves. Speaking the language of what IS, rather than what isn’t communicates love in the most unconditional way and the truth of “what’s so” in the here and now.
When we know our own true value and worth and our love is unconditional, we can listen consciously and speak encouragingly and deservingly to those around us. Then we’re speaking the language of authentic love and that’s the greatest gift we can give ourselves and others. That’s how the law of attraction works.
To proclaim or declare something means to speak with true feeling from our heart. When we live in an aware abundant universe everything flows easily and fear doesn’t hold us back when we allow ourselves to speak out and stretch beyond our comfort zone.
When we master the language of true love, our souls are bared and we are humbled before our very Selves, in the presence of God and we can shout it into the universe with no embarrassment just because we say so and we choose it as the truth of “what’s so,” with no ego, reason or excuse. Then we can see others as a true reflection of our own true love with no exception.
Practicing the mastery of language is yet another way I live a magical life.
